For those who have chosen to date as a part of their budget stretching, dinner every evening with a different man could be a good game plan. There are many opportunities to meet new people, and they could become quite experienced in finding someone looking for a companion for a meal and drinks. Being able to say yes on the spur of the moment is a bonus for the asker, so just a few minutes conversation gets them a meal and an evening out with nothing more invested.
Many young women working in the city have jobs where they need to dress up, so finding an outfit for a dinner date is generally quite easy. If they have nothing suitable, their roommates might be able to help. Getting dressed and out the door on time is important, but walking into the restaurant where they will be meeting a few minutes late is always acceptable. Looking her most attractive, she smiles as he greets her and buys her a drink before dinner.
After drinks and dinner, a woman might not be ready to give her personal information to any man, so the couple might arrange a second date with another meeting at a local eatery. This works well for the woman because she has few concerns he will be able to find her in a city that holds millions of people, but it works against the man who might be truly interested in pursuing a relationship.
Their meetings might go on for a few weeks, but she will eventually find an excuse to let him know she is not interested. It is best for her to do this before he suspects her true motive for being with him because he might be upset if he knew dinner was all she ever wanted.